I also like how Lahiri gives insight on the backgrounds of the couple: who they are, where they come from, how they got to Cambridge, Massachusetts. Both Ashima and Ashoke traveled to America from Calcutta, India. They came from traditional Indian families, who paired them together for marriage. Although the marriage was arranged, over time Ashima and Ashoke learned to love each other.
They moved to America for Ashoke. This is clear when, after Ashima has the baby, she realizes that she does not want to raise Gogol in a such an unfamiliar place. She wants to raise him in India, where she had grown up, and where he would be surrounded by family and Indian culture. "[Ashoke] looks at Ashima, her face leaner, the features sharper than they had been at their wedding, aware that her life in Cambridge, as his wife, has already taken a toll," (Lahiri 33). Ashoke would do anything for Ashima because he loves her, but is he willing to give up his life in Cambridge just because of her homesickness? Ghosh, the man that Ashoke met on the train years ago - the train that would derail and kill most everyone on board, not counting Ashoke - told him that it was "'...his greatest regret, coming back [to India],'" (Lahiri 33). I don't think Ashoke would want to return to live in India, even for Ashima.
I also wonder what they will name Gogol, since it's only a pet name. Will they keep the name or change it?
I'm interested to see what will happen in the next few chapters. I can only hope that everything turns out well for Ashima and Ashoke, because as of right now I'm invested in their characters.
Hey Marina, I enjoyed reading your blog post because you bring up some very interesting points. As I read the story, I also took notice on how easy it was to sympathize with the characters and it was as if I could almost feel their emotions. I like how you pointed out the differences between Ashoke and Ashima and how they feel about living in the United States. It is very clear that Ashima desperately wants to go back to India because she misses her family and she doesn't want to raise her child in an unknown place. Meanwhile, Ashoke is torn between staying or going back to India because he feels bad knowing that his wife is homesick, but after the train accident, he wants to be as far away from home as possible. This was a great post describing their different perspectives!
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